7 Ways to Get a Guy to Hold Your Hand

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We gravitate toward situations and people who make us feel as content and secure as possible. Equally, if a guy doesn't hold your hand, it doesn't necessarily mean he isn't interested.

He likely is interested in developing a relationship with you. Personal space is an important concept to understand.

The Way You Hold Hands With Your Partner Reveals a Lot About Your Relationship

Gauge the level of interest. If you're out on a date, look for subtle signs that he might be ready for you to hold his hand. If your date has been giving you the cold shoulder all night, this is a sure sign that he is not interested. But if he has been walking close to you and seems comfortable, this is a good signal for initiating hand holding. Wait for the right time and place. If you are in the middle of dinner or are doing an activity that requires you to move a lot, holding hands will not be very convenient. You don't want to hold hands for the first time when both of you are in a large group of friends or at a family gathering. The two of you don't necessarily have to be alone, but make sure it is a private place where both of you are comfortable. You may have people around you, but strangers will most likely not pay attention to the two of you, giving you the privacy you need. Since you are sitting right next to each other, your positions are very conducive to holding hands. The darkness adds a layer of privacy and may help if your date is shy. You might be a little nervous, so check your hands to make sure they are not sweaty or clammy. If they are, subtly wipe them off or stick them in your pockets for a moment to dry them off. Your date may be nervous too, but sweaty palms are not very appealing. Super dry hands or hands that smell are an even bigger turn off than sweaty hands. When you've found the right time and place and you feel ready, walk close to your date and gently take his hand. Remember to be gentle and not to rush it. Make it as subtle as possible and remember to keep talking or walking to ensure it is natural and comfortable. You don't want to give off the wrong impression at this early stage in your relationship. This gives him a heads up before you grab his hand and adds a nice, more intimate touch to your initial hand holding. It may be that he isn't interested, but he may also just be shy and is not quite ready to hold hands. Don't take it personally and try to make him feel comfortable in the situation. You'll get there eventually. Use the simple hand grasp technique at first. When you grab his hand, reach across his hand to where your palms are centered, making an X with your hands. Gently close your hand, wrapping your fingers and thumb around the edges of your date's hand. This adds a layer of affection to your grasp and it lets him know you are enjoying the activity without you having to tell him. If he returns the gesture, you know you're doing it right. This can be uncomfortable and cause both of your hands to sweat. If you want to get your date to hold your hand, start simple by making eye contact with him, smiling subtly. This lets him know you are interested in him and makes you seem open and receptive to physical contact. The physical proximity, added with the eye contact, will make you seem interested and responsive to his presence. Opening up the possibility of physical contact is important. Let your fingers brush at dinner or when you're walking from the car. If you are walking side by side, gently hold his arm or link your arms together. These are gentler forms of contact that let your date know that you are okay with touching. This way, you hold hands for a short while but it isn't as nerve-racking as officially holding hands. Your date might need some clues that you want your hand held. Try giving him small hints that you want to hold hands. Your date might just be nervous, so encouraging him is always helpful. You can also let your hand drop over to his side on the armrest. Your date should take notice and get the hint that you want it held. Tell him that your hands are cold or ask him to feel if they are. Hopefully, your date will see if he can help warm them up. This is a cute, flirtatious way to get your date to hold your hand. Bring your hand up in the air and when your date raises theirs, gently place your palms together, comparing the sizes. This gets your date's hand close to yours and is a subtle way to let him know you want to hold his hand. If for some reason your date has still not figured out that you want to hold hands, initiate contact yourself. Gently clasp his hand and squeeze it gently, letting him know you care. If you are nervous, it is likely that your date is as well. This may help both of you relax. Once you and your date have gotten comfortable holding hands, try taking the initiative this time and use a different, more intimate hand holding method. If you are clasping hands, open your fingers and move them until they are aligned with your date's fingers. Open your fingers slightly, pushing each of your fingers into the space between your date's fingers, interlocking your fingers. Also, when you hold his hand, you could make eye contact and smile meaningfully, letting him know you aren't just messing around. Finally, before when you held hands, you were not in a relationship, so I'm sure he will understand the gesture better given the circumstances. Do not be too clingy! Usually there should be a natural time to let go, like if your hands become to sweaty or the other person must move. Don't be afraid to be the one to let go, especially if you feel uncomfortable. Sometimes you just need to make the leap. If they reject your advances, it may seem like the end of the world, but you'll both likely forget about it soon.

He likes you, you know it, but he has a hard responsible expressing it because he's afraid to put himself out there and make a move. If you want to get started now, see Step 1. The simple answer is that holding hands depends on the guy. This also is your unspoken permission for him to touch you in a responsible way. There are several sites that assign special meanings to different hand holding styles, but they do not cite any references and should be probably viewed only as entertainment reading. If you're nervous, let just the edges of your hands touch for a bit before you go in for the ring.